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When Yes Means No. Setting Boundaries Like A Champ.
A funny, honest, and empowering look at boundaries—why we need them, why we’re often terrible at setting them, and how learning to say “no” (without guilt!) can be the ultimate act of self-care. Inspired by an eye-opening podcast episode and packed with real talk, relatable moments, and a whole lot of encouragement.
Jun 235 min read


If You Go Down to the Woods Today...
So, when I announced a couple of weeks ago that I was joining an amazing group of wild women for a naked photo shoot in the middle of nowhere, I got a mixture of responses.
Obviously leading with the naked element maybe wasn't the best idea, and my poor mum bless her - well, she even asked if it was porn. After reassuring her over and over that it certainly was not, I think she finally believed me. Or not...
Jun 109 min read


Its All About Perspective....
Its Here.....
2024 may have been tough for many, but when you flip the perspective, things were nowhere near as bad as it may have seemed.
Jan 39 min read


Everyday I Wake Up Sexy, Even When I Don't!
It has to hurt if its to heal!
Nov 7, 20248 min read


Another Year Older - Definitely No Wiser!
Happy birthday musers. You are a whole year old!!!!
Oct 5, 20245 min read


If Music be the Food of Life, Play on...
For me, music is life, and a life without music would be no life at all.
Sep 14, 20246 min read


#StaycationVibes
Its August people! It might not be the best August that we have ever had but actually, if you disregard the weather and soak up the love...
Aug 28, 20244 min read


How Lucky I Am To Have Something That Makes Saying Goodbye So Hard...
The thing is musers, no matter who you are, grief will enter your life, and with it comes change.
Jul 18, 20245 min read


You Are Only Out Of The Fight If You Don't Get Back Up.......
Sometimes life just wallops you. No rhyme, no reason. Just a big fat right hook straight across your face, knocking you sideways and...
Jul 6, 20246 min read


The minute you stop living is the minute you start dying.....
For those of you who don't know, this week has been mental health awareness week. I have always spoken quite openly about the things that...
May 18, 20247 min read


Embrace Your Mind - Be Kind.....
So, for those of you who are not aware, May 13th to May 19th is Mental Health Awareness Week. Mental health has become such a huge topic...
May 8, 20247 min read


When Someone Shows You Who They Are – Pay Attention
The biggest lesson I have learned over the last few years is this... When someone shows you who they are, pay attention! I am almost 47,...
May 1, 20245 min read


With A Little Help From Your Friends......
One thing I have learned as I have gotten older is just how important friendships are, and how in amongst all the craziness of life, having
Apr 21, 20246 min read


It Has To Hurt If Its To Heal.
Sometimes, in amongst the laughter, the games, the socialising and the fun, there are moments. Quiet moments that make you catch your...
Apr 5, 20247 min read


Does Love Equal Life?
So, on one of my many distracted moments scrolling through facebook throughout my day, I came across this. Like most ladies I suspect, I...
Apr 2, 20249 min read


Gooooossfraaabaa.....
Once upon a time there was a little girl who wanted to take on the world. She wanted to study sharks in their natural habitat, she wanted...
Jan 14, 20246 min read


I Choose Me!
And so it begins musers.... another New Year. 365 days of choices, lessons, experiences, laughter, tears, anger, happiness and all round...
Jan 7, 20246 min read
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